Friday, November 20, 2009

50 Ways to be a Better Dad - #9

#9 - Show Affection

Children need the secruity that comes from knowing they are wanted, accepted and loved by their family. Parents, especially fathers, need to feel both comfortable and willing to hug their children. Showing affection every day is the best way to let your children know that you love them.

Taken from "10 Ways to be a better Dad" brochure

Thursday, November 19, 2009

50 Ways to be a Better Dad - #8

#8 - Read to your Children

In a world where television often dominates the lives of children, it is important that fathers make the effort to read to their children. Children learn best by doing and reading, as well as seeing and hearing. Begin reading to your children when they are very young. When they are older, encourage them to read on their own. Instilling your children with a love for reading is one of the best ways to ensure they will have a lifetime of personal and career growth.

Taken from "10 Ways to be a better Dad" Brochure

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

50 Ways to be a Better Dad - #7

#7 - Eat Together as a Family

Sharing a meal together (breakfast, lunch or dinner) can be an important part of healthyfamily life. In addition to providing some structure in a busy day, it gives kids the chance to talk about what they are doing and want to do. It is also a good time for fathers to listen and give advice. Most importantly, it is a time for families to be together each day.

Taken from "10 Ways to be a Better Dad" Brochure

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Fifty Ways to be a Better Dad - #6

#6 - Be a Teacher

Too many fathers think teaching is something others do. But a father who teaches his children about right and wrong, and encourages them to do their best, will see his children make good choices. Involved fathers use everyday examples to help their children learn the basic lessons of life.

Taken from "10 Ways to be a Better Dad." Brochure

Monday, November 16, 2009

50 Ways to be a Better Dad - #5

#5 - Be a Role Model -

Fathers are role models to their kids, whether they realize it or not. A girl who spends time with a loving father grows up knowing she deserves to be treated with respect by boys, and what to look for in a husband. Fathers can teach sons what is important in life by demonstrating honesty, humility and responsibility.

Taken from "10 Ways to be a Better Dad" Brochure

Sunday, November 15, 2009

50 Ways to be a Better Dad - #4

#4 - Discipline with Love -

All children need guidance and discipline, not as punishment, but to set reasonable limits. Remind your children of the consquences of their actions and provide meaningful rewards for desirable behavior. Fathers who discipline in a calm and fair manner show love for their children.

Taken from "10 Ways to be a Better Dad" Brochure

Saturday, November 14, 2009

50 Ways to be a Better Dad - #3

#3 - Earn the Right to be Heard -

All too often the only time a father speaks to his children is when they have done something wrong. That's why so many children cringe when their mother's says, "Your father wants to talk with you." Begin talking with your kids when they are young so that different subjects will be easier to handle as they get older. Take time and listen to their ideas and problems.

Taken from "10 Ways to be a Better Dad" Brochure