Day 26: Getting Involved - The Story Behind No If's

The inspiration behind "No Ifs"

Financial troubles. A broken relationship. Past family struggles. Peter had a long string of excuses for being an uninvolved father. But he didn't hide behind any of them. Peter stepped up to the challenge and stayed involved and active in his son's life, despite several difficult trials. He hopes his story will inspire other fathers to abandon their excuses - not their relationships with their children.The product of a broken home, Pete was determined to give his son the love and attention he needed and deserved, regardless of circumstances.

Peter's college girlfriend, Jennifer, became pregnant with their son after only eight months of dating. Carter was born on March 16, 2001, several months after Peter and Jennifer graduated.

Under tight financial conditions, Pete was determined to be everything his parents were not and spent as much time as possible with his son. However, many pressures began to strain Jen and Pete's relationship. They broke up and decided to equally share custody of Carter. Pete was left to raise his son under very difficult circumstances with little support.

Although it was extraordinarily difficult, Carter and Pete grew tremendously close and Pete still considers this period to be the most trying and rewarding experience he has ever faced.During this time, Pete began to realize the importance of involved fathers and was determined to start an organization to increase awareness and support for dads. His concept was to start an organization around a "No Ifs" concept that would endeavor to educate the public about the importance of fathers. However, he soon realized that an organization already existed and was working to support and encourage dads: National Fatherhood Initiative.

Pete and the National Fatherhood Initiative partnered to produce "No Ifs" awareness bracelets to remind fathers that there are no excuses for uninvolved fatherhood.

There is a very happy ending to Pete's story. Jen and Pete have realized the importance of their relationship and they are now married (Carter served as Pete’s best man). Carter is a healthy and happy seven-year-old and Jen and Pete both have successful careers. As a result of his own experiences, struggles, and triumphs, Peter is committed to staying involved in Carter's life and encouraging other fathers to do the same with their children. He had "No Ifs," and neither should you."

So, order your "No Ifs" bracelets today to show your devotion to your children!